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24th Jun 2025

Who the F Am I? The Resurrection Season of Remembering Your Power

When was the last time you looked in the mirror and actually recognized yourself?

If you're staring at a stranger especially if you're navigating perimenopause or major life transitions, this episode is your wake-up call. Michelle gets raw about losing sight of herself and shares the exact framework that's helping her (and can help you) resurrect the woman you really are.

In This Episode: Michelle opens up about her own identity crisis, introduces the powerful ABCs of Becoming Her framework, and issues a 30-day invitation that could change everything.

You'll Learn:

  • The ABCs of Becoming Her: Accept/Acknowledge, Be, Become, Clarity, Connect, Do, Embody
  • Why your nervous system keeps you playing small (and how to work with it)
  • The "being" practice that requires just one hour - yes, you have it
  • How to stop seeking understanding and start being felt
  • Why some wounds are meant to heal others, not disappear

Key Moment: Michelle reveals her Chiron wound the deep need to be understood and her realization that she's actually meant to be felt, not understood. This shift changes everything about how she shows up.

The 30-Day Invitation: Join Michelle in remembering who you are. No challenges, no pressure just an invitation to be for 30 days and fall in love with yourself again.

Resources Mentioned:

  • Screen time check on your phone (spoiler: you have that hour to "be")
  • Chiron wound (the wound you're meant to heal)

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Ready to remember who you are? Subscribe for the next 29 days of this journey, and share this with a woman who needs to hear it.

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About the Podcast

Hot Mess Magic
Raw, honest conversations for anyone done pretending. Drop the facade. Own your mess. Discover the magic in being human.
Hot Mess Magic is the podcast for anyone ready to stop pretending they have it all together.

Because here's the truth nobody's saying: We're all a mess. Every single one of us. The difference is most people are hiding it, performing it away, spiritually bypassing it, or pretending their way through life.

Hosted by bestselling author and keynote speaker Michelle Burke, this show gives you permission to drop the facade. To own where you actually are instead of where you think you "should" be. To stop hiding your humanity and start discovering the magic that's been there all along in the mess.

You'll hear raw, unfiltered conversations with people who've stopped performing: the business owner who walked away from success that looked perfect but felt hollow. The woman who finally admitted her marriage was over. The high achiever who burned out trying to prove their worth. The person who looked "fine" on the outside while falling apart on the inside.

This isn't therapy. It's not coaching. It's truth.

Truth about what it actually takes to transform. Truth about how exhausting the performance is. Truth about the fact that you're not broken, you're just finally ready to stop pretending.

The mess isn't something to fix. It's where you learn, grow, and expand.
This show is for the ones who are done with:

Spiritual bypassing and toxic positivity
Performing perfection while dying inside
Pretending they're fine when they're not
Waiting for permission to be human

If you've ever felt like you're the only one struggling while everyone else has it together, this show will remind you: We're all falling apart. We're all figuring it out. The only difference is who's willing to get real about it.

New episodes every Wednesday. Subscribe and discover that your mess was always your magic.
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