Midlife Reinvention: Killing the Hot Mess Identity | Michelle Burke | Transformation, Self-Sabotage & Freedom

I built an entire brand around being a hot mess—and then I had to kill her.

This episode of Hot Mess Magic isn’t about inspiration. It’s about exposure. Michelle Burke gets brutally honest about identity death, self-sabotage, and fear of success—and why sometimes you have to bury the version of yourself you created just to survive.

From car repossession to sexual assault to nights of not knowing where she’d sleep, Michelle reveals how her survival identity became a cage. She burned down her first podcast (Wine, Whiskey & Life) after 10 episodes, sabotaged Hot Mess Magic twice, and finally realized the real reason: success felt scarier than failure.

Inside this raw episode, you’ll hear:

• The psychology of why we sabotage our own success
• What it means to go through an identity death
• How Human Design as a 3/5 Manifesting Generator plays into trial-and-error growth
• The terrifying moment Hot Mess Magic Media revealed itself as something bigger
• Why the new RAW anthology series (Real Audacious Women) is exposing survival stories with no filter

This is Michelle at her most unpolished—processing growth in real time, announcing a massive pivot, and refusing to filter the truth.

👉 Want to share your own survival story? Applications for the RAW: Survival, Trauma, Resiliency anthology are open. Submit here

Stop filtering. Start exposing.