Episode 11

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23rd Jul 2025

Let It All Out: Grief, Rage, and Reclaiming Your Voice with Nichole Lee

What happens when the pain of loss becomes the portal to your power?

In this raw and deeply human conversation, Michelle sits down with transformational guide and disruptor Nichole Lee to talk about the grief that cracked them open and the messy, magical journey back to themselves.

From the devastating loss of Nichole’s mother to Michelle’s back-to-back heartbreaks after losing her dad and grandma, they unpack how grief, burnout, and rage forced them to stop performing and start listening. This is not a how-to-grieve episode. It’s a permission slip to rage, sob, scream, nap, eat ice cream, and let it all be sacred.

They share the tools that actually work for healing, how spiritual awakenings can blindside you mid-breakdown, and why screaming contests in the living room might just save your life.

If you’re navigating grief, identity loss, or simply asking “Who the hell am I now?”, this conversation will meet you where you are and show you how to alchemize the mess into something meaningful.

 In this episode:

  • What delayed grief really looks like (and why it blindsides you)
  • The difference between coping and numbing (and why both matter)
  • Why spiritual awakenings often follow emotional breakdowns
  • The link between suppressed emotions and burnout
  • How to find your grief toolkit and why it’s personal
  • Using ritual to turn grief anniversaries into sacred celebrations
  • The power of giving every version of yourself a seat at the table

This episode is for the ones riding the wave. The ones screaming in their car or zoning out in the bathtub. The ones who know there’s something sacred in the sadness and who are ready to meet themselves there.

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Keywords: grief recovery, burnout and healing, spiritual awakening after loss, grief rituals, emotional release techniques, how to process grief, emotional intelligence, nervous system healing, reclaiming self-worth, trauma and rebirth, healing for high achievers, grief support for women

Categories: Personal Growth, Grief & Loss, Emotional Healing, Spirituality, Women’s Empowerment

Hashtags: #GriefHealing #HotMessMagic #EmotionalAlchemy #BurnoutRecovery #SpiritualRebirth #PermissionToFeel

This episode contains discussions of grief, loss, and mental health. If you're struggling, please reach out to a mental health professional.

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Hot Mess Magic
Raw, honest conversations for anyone done pretending. Drop the facade. Own your mess. Discover the magic in being human.
Hot Mess Magic is the podcast for anyone ready to stop pretending they have it all together.

Because here's the truth nobody's saying: We're all a mess. Every single one of us. The difference is most people are hiding it, performing it away, spiritually bypassing it, or pretending their way through life.

Hosted by bestselling author and keynote speaker Michelle Burke, this show gives you permission to drop the facade. To own where you actually are instead of where you think you "should" be. To stop hiding your humanity and start discovering the magic that's been there all along in the mess.

You'll hear raw, unfiltered conversations with people who've stopped performing: the business owner who walked away from success that looked perfect but felt hollow. The woman who finally admitted her marriage was over. The high achiever who burned out trying to prove their worth. The person who looked "fine" on the outside while falling apart on the inside.

This isn't therapy. It's not coaching. It's truth.

Truth about what it actually takes to transform. Truth about how exhausting the performance is. Truth about the fact that you're not broken, you're just finally ready to stop pretending.

The mess isn't something to fix. It's where you learn, grow, and expand.
This show is for the ones who are done with:

Spiritual bypassing and toxic positivity
Performing perfection while dying inside
Pretending they're fine when they're not
Waiting for permission to be human

If you've ever felt like you're the only one struggling while everyone else has it together, this show will remind you: We're all falling apart. We're all figuring it out. The only difference is who's willing to get real about it.

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